Empire: Destroy systems that oppress difference.

In a world rife with division and hatred, one might ask: “How can I maintain my peace and understand those I vehemently disagree with?” The answer lies not in passive acceptance but in recognizing the inherent worth of all beings.

The Global Situation

Our planet is plagued by conflicts that serve as stark reminders of our failures: Russia vs Ukraine, Israel vs Palestine. Thousands more go unnoticed, shoved aside by those in power. Humans are quick to label, to judge, to segregate. We're born into these categories, be it ethnic, socioeconomic, or religious. Take Christianity, for example, with its 2,600+ denominations, each convinced of their monopoly on truth and divine favor. Judgment abounds, and with it, the rot of unforgiveness.

The Unraveling of Understanding

Uncertainty is key. When I refuse to accept another's viewpoint, the outcome is often isolation. It is innate to seek belonging, but extreme identity politics hinder our growth. Are we so fragile that we must attack those with differing beliefs? Are we so insecure that we'd hurt someone for supporting a rival sports team? The neighbor who erected an 8-foot fence to avoid seeing a rainbow flag is a symbol of our bigotry and unwillingness to forgive.

A New Perspective: Metanoia Journey

Metanoia Journey, co-founded by myself, my wife, and our likeminded friends, is a community grounded in the belief that all beings are children of the same Creator. We engage in contemplative prayer and inner work to release the binds of labels that separate us from our true selves, our neighbors, and our shared Creator.

Through our practices, we recognize that we've unconsciously applied these restrictive labels, and we can consciously choose to unlearn them too, in a space of mutual support, understanding, and nonjudgment.

A cornerstone of our community is the teaching: "If I truly understood someone, I wouldn't disagree." This does not imply agreement but rather a recognition that lived experiences shape viewpoints. We strive to hold space for differences with acceptance and understanding.

As Richard Rohr aptly stated, "Our point of view is a view from a point."

Let us remember this as we navigate the uncertainty ahead.

David Wallace, a life coach and co-founder of Metanoia Journey, offers a liberal perspective on navigating our polarized world.